After the beloved tennis coach Nelson Alapi died, his family is receiving support from the community through a GoFundMe page.

Alapi was a staff member of the La Jolla Beach & Tennis Club. He mentored juniors to adults, assisting them in reaching their goals with passion. Alapi always kept positive energy, even when giving lessons seven days a week, 12 hours a day. Yet, he made time for his family at the end of those long days.

Crary Jagger, the organizer of the fundraising and one of the closest friends of Alapi remembered him as a source of joy and inspiration. “Nelson focused on inspiring and bringing people together. His memory, words, and messages will remain with his family, friends, and students,” said Jagger.

Unfortunately, as his support is no longer available, the family is now facing the aftermath and needs financial assistance.

He has left his family members behind – his wife Margaret Alapi and two children, Cristina and Nelson. Cristina is in college, playing for the San Diego State’s club team. Little Nelson is set to enroll at Bucknell University this fall, where he was recruited for tennis. Both of them are putting forth efforts to seek support in their ways – Cristina has applied for financial aid at San Diego State, and Nelson has been granted a partial need-based grant at Bucknell.

At the time Alapi was in the hospital, Margaret started a jewelry business called ‘Surfside Jewels’ and became the breadwinner. She supported her children successfully and stood by Alapi’s side while he underwent chemotherapy and a marrow bone transplant. Meanwhile, all the family members are pushing through and continuing to move forward by doing what they love.

Donors and Alapi’s students left messages on the GoFundMe page to pay tribute to him, expressing how kind he was as a friend, colleague, coach, and more.

“Nelson was the ambassador of tennis at the club for so many years. He shared his passion, love, and wisdom for the game with countless members. There is not a day that goes by when I am at the club that I don’t think of him and miss his presence so much.”

“Nelson, thank you for inspiring my love of tennis. You are such a joy, and I feel very fortunate to have had your coaching and mentorship. I always looked forward to seeing your smiling face on the court.”

Jagger conveyed gratitude to donors for their warm-heartedness and generous contributions. “I would like to thank all the donors for the overwhelming support. The funds are a tremendous help to the family at this time and as they plan for the future,” said Jagger.

Having raised over $91,000 from 160 donors, this outpouring of support reflects the impact Alapi had on those around him. You can support the family by joining GoFundMe and sending a message if you would like to express your appreciation for Alapi. All funds raised will be directly contributed to Margaret to aid the family during this challenging time.